What's the etiquette if you find out an SP is post op during a session?

Not sure if this thread will get locked immediately, and this isn't meant to be transphobic or anything like that. I'm just genuinely curious as to what is the right way to handle situations in which you know the SP is a post op individual? I know of different stories where guys have found out during the session, but i never got much information about the resolution. I know for a fact that there are a few of these girls currently working in different agencies. Not sure if the agencies themselves are aware, and I'm not about to dox them or anything. I'm just wondering if you encounter one, do you just call it a lesson learned and finish the session. Do you contact the agency and say thanks but no thanks even if you paid already and only found out during the season? As the clientele, I think we have the right to know what we are paying for. From a societal perspective, they are by all rights women. Do you just move on then?

AFFan2026 said: Not sure if this thread will get locked immediately, and this isn't meant to be transphobic or anything like that. I'm just genuinely curious as to what is the right way to handle situations in which you know the SP is a post op individual? I know of different stories where guys have found out during the session, but i never got much information about the resolution. I know for a fact that there are a few of these girls currently working in different agencies. Not sure if the agencies themselves are aware, and I'm not about to dox them or anything. I'm just wondering if you encounter one, do you just call it a lesson learned and finish the session. Do you contact the agency and say thanks but no thanks even if you paid already and only found out during the season? As the clientele, I think we have the right to know what we are paying for. From a societal perspective, they are by all rights women. Do you just move on then? Click to expand... There is no right way to handle it and whatever reaction regardless of how extreme is justified imo

This is click bait. What a pile of tripe. “I know for a fact that there are a few of these girls currently working in different agencies.” Bollocks. If this were the case we would have heard about it on here, more than once and by more than a single new user. I will bet you $10000 that you can’t find 3 people in Vancouver that are doing this. Asian Fever is the only place I know of that advertises this as an agency, otherwise the only reaction there should be to this scenario is “holy fuck what a stupid thread based on speculation, it relies on a person throwing their closeted fears about in hopes of getting a reaction.” Just another post like the OP’s only other post. Here is the only acceptable reaction to the 0.000000000000001% chance that this is to ever happen. “Well, would you look at that! I booked a transsexual person for a sex session. I guess I didn’t do my research.” You know for sure? My ass. You don’t want to dox anyone? Also bullshit. This is a review board and if you actually knew of any of this going on you would be well within the bounds to dox anyone that is doing shady shit like being trans and putting yourself off as anything else. The original post is just slanderous garbage looking to stir a pot. Come back and tell us if this actually happens or if you actually know of a real scenario where this happens, or, do something useful, like post a review of someone you have actually had sex with instead of posing stupid questions in the lounge.

Post op from what??

success13 said: Post op from what?? Click to expand... What?

Learn to walk away.... ..it's a rule that applies to anything you don't like. Girl looks too strung out, walk away. Asian girl looks 50 years older than what she let on, walk away. Why is there a big dude lurking down the hallway from her incall, walk away... Girl wasn't really a girl to begin with, walk away.... Screw being polite, a little drama and some hurt feelings pales in comparison to other adverse risks you can expose yourself to. Also, yeah,.. this is a rage-bait topic to begin with...it seems you're too worried over the wrong thing, trying to focus on the person's identity rather than be more situationally aware of your environment, and that's more dangerous....

Banged_Up said: This is click bait. What a pile of tripe. “I know for a fact that there are a few of these girls currently working in different agencies.” Bollocks. If this were the case we would have heard about it on here, more than once and by more than a single new user. I will bet you $10000 that you can’t find 3 people in Vancouver that are doing this. Asian Fever is the only place I know of that advertises this as an agency, otherwise the only reaction there should be to this scenario is “holy fuck what a stupid thread based on speculation, it relies on a person throwing their closeted fears about in hopes of getting a reaction.” Just another post like the OP’s only other post. Here is the only acceptable reaction to the 0.000000000000001% chance that this is to ever happen. “Well, would you look at that! I booked a transsexual person for a sex session. I guess I didn’t do my research.” You know for sure? My ass. You don’t want to dox anyone? Also bullshit. This is a review board and if you actually knew of any of this going on you would be well within the bounds to dox anyone that is doing shady shit like being trans and putting yourself off as anything else. The original post is just slanderous garbage looking to stir a pot. Come back and tell us if this actually happens or if you actually know of a real scenario where this happens, or, do something useful, like post a review of someone you have actually had sex with instead of posing stupid questions in the lounge. Click to expand... Holy. Jeez. Calm down. You really have no idea what you are talking about. There has been plenty of speculation in the threads before, and they have been removed or scrubbed since mods have said no proof or speculation is allowed. This is not talking about chick's with dicks. This is regarding fully transitioned people (i.e. fake vaginas). Like I said, I'm not in the business of pointing them out. You really don't have to believe me if you don't want to. I'm just saying, I know who some of them are, and I'm sure there are a few more out there. I'm just wondering what's the general etiquette in those situations since you really won't know until you see the vagina and in the middle of the session. They are very attractive and you really would never know unless you do.

AFFan2026 said: do you just call it a lesson learned and finish the session. Click to expand... The part that stood out [:cool:]

This is so odd, I've never come across this myself but so what if your SP is a trans woman? I'd expect everything is in working order and you're having a great time, do you need their whole backstory for a successful sex session? Or are these secret trans women SPs the same as those secret trans women in sports, practically non existant?

DaytonaTodd said: whatever reaction regardless of how extreme is justified imo Click to expand... How extreme? How violent?

Banged_Up said: This is click bait Click to expand... No kidding! Look at his history. New member in three threads all clickbait nonsense.

VictoriaMan said: This is so odd, I've never come across this myself but so what if your SP is a trans woman? I'd expect everything is in working order and you're having a great time, do you need their whole backstory for a successful sex session? Or are these secret trans women SPs the same as those secret trans women in sports, practically non existant? Click to expand... It does matter, its false advertising for the services you are paying for. Lets not make it about trans women but the person paying for sex with women. I have booked trans women multiple times and enjoyed it too, but thats my informed decision. Sex is not just stick and dump, we enjoy it when physical contact combines with other senses. I had one such instance, where as soon as I realised, all the excitement was gone, felt cheated, left the session and never booked another session with her. My suggestion is: if you know, learn to walk out.

westwoody said: How extreme? How violent? Click to expand... Some may choose to get violent. I think it would be a case of FAFO for the sp.

Ok, that's enough. A few closing thoughts: 1. if you think a violent reaction is justified for a post op female, you are a pathetic loser, who is not welcome here. Goodbye Dakota Todd. Your Perbatory stay is permanent. 2. The vast majority of providers who are post op (or which there are comparatively few based on being around this game for 30 years) disclose that right in their ads because they don't want any drama 3. This kind of ridiculous click bait and hate mongering isn't welcome here. Based on the OP's track record, they will be taking a month off to learn what PERB is about and any further rage baiting will be their last post here. 4. PERB is inclusive. Trans phobia and trans aggression isn't welcome here and will be handled swiftly and severely. Post op women are women, full stop. Trans women are women. We allow all kinds of posts, and have sections for gay and transgender sessions, several threads are active now. Just because you are hiding in the lounge and covering it as "discucssion" doesn't make it any less hostile.