Daddy Issues

Lots of judgement here , I agree if no one is being harmed intentionally physically or mentally and both adults are consenting than I say live and let live . There are certainly far more extreme kinks than that ( which I also have zero issues with ) . What two consenting adults choose to do in the bedroom is their choice. Honestly surprised to see so much judgement on a forum where we discuss sex worker related topics so openly .

rockharddick said: Really? As with the daddy thing, it’s never crossed my mind. Maybe I’m not as perverted as I thought I was. Click to expand... Yeah. I don't personally get that request because I don't have the physique that's typically associated with a "mommy" (which is really weird when you think about it because any adult woman could be a mom) but some of my friends get that all the time...

Once you go black said: Lots of judgement here , I agree if no one is being harmed intentionally physically or mentally and both adults are consenting than I say live and let live . There are certainly far more extreme kinks than that ( which I also have zero issues with ) . What two consenting adults choose to do in the bedroom is their choice. Honestly surprised to see so much judgement on a forum where we discuss sex worker related topics so openly . Click to expand... Is it judgement or personal discomfort? Personally, I just don't want a guy to ask me to call him daddy. It makes me uncomfortable. But I also peg men, restrict them, etc on occasion.. yet it's something that has been discussed beforehand. I can see why a guy wouldn't feel comfortable with a girl randomly calling him daddy during sex tbh. even if it doesn't seem to be that big of a deal.

Interesting, I don't subscribe to the "call me daddy" thing. However, I was once getting the blowjob of all blowjobs from one of my favourite SPs and in my delirium muttered "you're such a good girl" and, wow, she stopped, stone-cold, and said "don't ever call me that again!". Luckily, we had enough of a rapport that after a bathroom break and some chit-chat we were able to get back into the session... still, case in point that not all women dig that shit!

lunaseraphim said: Is it judgement or personal discomfort? Personally, I just don't want a guy to ask me to call him daddy. It makes me uncomfortable. But I also peg men, restrict them, etc on occasion.. yet it's something that has been discussed beforehand. I can see why a guy wouldn't feel comfortable with a girl randomly calling him daddy during sex tbh. even if it doesn't seem to be that big of a deal. Click to expand... Just to clarify I’m not referring to situations when one person asking another when the other said person feels uncomfortable doing so . I am simply referring to situations in which both parties 100% consent and that’s what both parties enjoy . Also I did use the words “Consenting” twice in my post , including the sentence “two consenting adults” .

beaveraddict said: Interesting, I don't subscribe to the "call me daddy" thing. However, I was once getting the blowjob of all blowjobs from one of my favourite SPs and in my delirium muttered "you're such a good girl" and, wow, she stopped, stone-cold, and said "don't ever call me that again!". Luckily, we had enough of a rapport that after a bathroom break and some chit-chat we were able to get back into the session... still, case in point that not all women dig that shit! Click to expand... No they don't. I wouldn't have reacted like she did, but I'm not a fan of dirty talk with clients, personally. There are things I've been told in session that resulted me to block the number. I remember one guy was talking about how he wanted to fuck me in the ass ''even if I don't do that'' and called me a ''proper slut'' and things like this. ''Good girl'' isn't that big of a deal in my opinion lol but sometimes it just starts like that and then goes to other places, some guys assume everyone enjoys this type of talk because it feels taboo and exciting to them, but many don't. I also think some guys think because we are SP we can tolerate more or want to hear that type of thing. I read a review about a friend of mine a couple of weeks ago, from a really long time ago. The writer of the review keeps saying shit like ''i told her she knows what she's on earth to do, be a real whore and submit to men instead of getting a useless degree'' among other things.. UHH... Once you go black said: Just to clarify I’m not referring to situations when one person asking another when the other said person feels uncomfortable doing so . I am simply referring to situations in which both parties 100% consent and that’s what both parties enjoy . Click to expand... Yes of course, but most of the comments here describe situations that surprised them and that they weren't ready for, or interested in. Consent needs to be respected on the client side too. I also think some others are bringing up good points. In the BDSM scene, there is the ageplay kink.. and I think it's way different when a ''daddy dom'' is seeking a girl who's barely 18 compared to if he's doing this with someone within his age range. That's the thing with kink and D/S roleplay, some people are well versed at it and truly want everybody's well being to be respected, but sadly some people just want to exert power over a vulnerable person. Personally I think that for a lot of dominants allowing the submissive to feel taken care of and to enter a space where they can experience something very specific is important, so whether it's ageplay or something else, they will enter the role. But I sometimes ask myself questions about people who are only into this specifically... Despite that, I think ''daddy'' can be just the way to call someone who's giving himself a caregiving role in the relationship.

lunaseraphim said: No they don't. I wouldn't have reacted like she did, but I'm not a fan of dirty talk with clients, personally. There are things I've been told in session that resulted me to block the number. I remember one guy was talking about how he wanted to fuck me in the ass ''even if I don't do that'' and called me a ''proper slut'' and things like this. ''Good girl'' isn't that big of a deal in my opinion lol but sometimes it just starts like that and then goes to other places, some guys assume everyone enjoys this type of talk because it feels taboo and exciting to them, but many don't. I also think some guys think because we are SP we can tolerate more or want to hear that type of thing. I read a review about a friend of mine a couple of weeks ago, from a really long time ago. The writer of the review keeps saying shit like ''i told her she knows what she's on earth to do, be a real whore and submit to men instead of getting a useless degree'' among other things.. UHH... Yes of course, but most of the comments here describe situations that surprised them and that they weren't ready for, or interested in. Consent needs to be respected on the client side too. I also think some others are bringing up good points. In the BDSM scene, there is the ageplay kink.. and I think it's way different when a ''daddy dom'' is seeking a girl who's barely 18 compared to if he's doing this with someone within his age range. That's the thing with kink and D/S roleplay, some people are well versed at it and truly want everybody's well being to be respected, but sadly some people just want to exert power over a vulnerable person. Personally I think that for a lot of dominants allowing the submissive to feel taken care of and to enter a space where they can experience something very specific is important, so whether it's ageplay or something else, they will enter the role. But I sometimes ask myself questions about people who are only into this specifically... Despite that, I think ''daddy'' can be just the way to call someone who's giving himself a caregiving role in the relationship. Click to expand... I know a guy who loves REALLY taboo, degrading, humiliating dirty talk with SPs. His secret? He goes for SPs who dont know a lick of English so they just go "yes yes!" to whatever he says no matter how mean, hurtful, racist, or taboo. A bit creepy 😳

Although I've never asked specifically, I have been called daddy in many sessions. No issue with it. Turns me on tbh. It's the same as when a sp calls me babe or baby. For me there is no role play or fantasy attached to it. Just a term for a gal to refer to me as when letting me know the pleasure is mutual.

jay99 said: Although I've never asked specifically, I have been called daddy in many sessions. No issue with it. Turns me on tbh. It's the same as when a sp calls me babe or baby. For me there is no role play or fantasy attached to it. Just a term for a gal to refer to me as when letting me know the pleasure is mutual. Click to expand... I don't like either. "babe" or "baby" is just so generically impersonal.

The worst for me is Hon. Honey is fine but Hon is so disingenuous.

Like others have mentioned, it is more about being submissive (or being dom, in guys case). I don't think it is about the girls imagining they are doing it with their actual dads. That would be a turn off.

The term daddy, has been around for a while... you should check out the newer slang teenagers are using now...

Brittany Natasha does it and I couldn’t stand it

There’s some really good points brought up here. Lots of food for thought. As a kink provider, there’s some things I’m just not comfortable with providing. I can be so literal so I’m uncomfortable being called mommy or calling anybody daddy in a sexual manner. My dad was the best man who ever lived. I’m not bringing him in this room with us. And that’s how that feels. I have called friends daddy in a teasing non sexual manner I am ok being called mommy in some kink scenarios but it would take too many words in my website to explain when it’s ok and when it’s not so I just say no to all family type play. I’m not submissive and I’ve been called good girl in sessions more times than I can count. Usually during a blow job lol. I find it annoying but it is something I completely ignore. I don’t want to make my work harder by making a big deal out of a minor irritant. That’s just part of life. This person doesn’t know me and if calling me good girl gets him to cum faster, then call me that all you want. Im not into the Madonna whore, good girl bad girl thing some people have going on. I’m a human being that likes sex a lot and who loves to play with kink who years ago, decided to monetize this rather than look for another boring job and my ei was running out. Hahaha. We’re all human here 💕

As a grown man who had a healthy relationship with both my parents....it gives me a soft-on...i had a lady call me that once and respectfully asked her to stop...not my circus..not my monkey

Since some of the posters here can't help themselves and have slipped into kink shaming and some of the worst assumptions and insults, I am closing this down. Live and let live. No one is without faults or weird things they like. Just because you don't agree doesn't make them wrong or you right. Someone thinks you are a piece of crap too, everyone has their fans and their haters.