Married on Tinder

Okay guys, I know this is contradictory to a problem that the SP industry has already solved. Let's assume you are in a sexless SO situation, and getting caught is not an issue for whatever reason. Is there much of a chance of finding hook-ups on Tinder? I mean with being completely honest about being married. Or at least not lying about being single. Ideally with permission from SO.

Tsubame said: Okay guys, I know this is contradictory to a problem that the SP industry has already solved. Let's assume you are in a sexless SO situation, and getting caught is not an issue for whatever reason. Is there much of a chance of finding hook-ups on Tinder? I mean with being completely honest about being married. Or at least not lying about being single. Ideally with permission from SO. Click to expand... Most of the apps should have Poly options now a days ( instead of single ) You should always be honest w someone about your situation when meeting on a dating site though .

I tried Grinder, cause that's where trans girls go and I was surprised that biological girls go there too. Some were ladies looking for money posting on hookup sites, instead of advertising as escorts on LL.

Tinder isn’t what it used to be. Many women are using it as a more traditional dating app now, and the “quick hookup” isn’t nearly as prominent. Apps like Pure and Feeld seem to be the place for that now, but like anything the ratio of guys to women is likely off the chart. But if you’re a good looking dude, and are open about your situation being ENM (ethical non monogamy, ie. your partner knows and is fine with it) those might be better places to try.

GeeBeeP said: Tinder isn’t what it used to be. Many women are using it as a more traditional dating app now, and the “quick hookup” isn’t nearly as prominent. Apps like Pure and Feeld seem to be the place for that now, but like anything the ratio of guys to women is likely off the chart. But if you’re a good looking dude, and are open about your situation being ENM (ethical non monogamy, ie. your partner knows and is fine with it) those might be better places to try. Click to expand... I would be interested to hear if anyone here has had experience with either Pure of Feeld.

I haven't been on those for some time (2 years or so) but POF and Tinder both had results. And definitely both changed from hookup to more traditional dating.

masterpoonhunter said: I haven't been on those for some time (2 years or so) but POF and Tinder both had results. And definitely both changed from hookup to more traditional dating. Click to expand... Surprisingly Tinder is still the most used even after all these yrs , But ya all the apps are getting less traffic than even a few yrs ago .

Tinder sucks. POF and Fetlife you can find loads of women who are DTF.

lukom said: I tried Grinder, cause that's where trans girls go and I was surprised that biological girls go there too. Some were ladies looking for money posting on hookup sites, instead of advertising as escorts on LL. Click to expand... How’s your experience been finding the trans girls on Grindr?

Pgup said: How’s your experience been finding the trans girls on Grindr? Click to expand... Most were escorts, others were a little too comfortable with unsafe stuff, and after several misses I found one gem there, a super feminine Trans lady who doesn't escort, just wanted a casual fwb arrangement, who wasn't looking to cater to a fetish.

lukom said: Most were escorts, others were a little too comfortable with unsafe stuff, and after several misses I found one gem there, a super feminine Trans lady who doesn't escort, just wanted a casual fwb arrangement, who wasn't looking to cater to a fetish. Click to expand... Awesome! Need a partner in play [;)]. My quest has largely been unsuccessful in all these years.

Pgup said: Awesome! Need a partner in play [;)]. My quest has largely been unsuccessful in all these years. Click to expand... I got lucky, but overall the app is a big waste of time.