Elsi Dawson

3/5. Great personality, lots of fun to talk to, affordable rates, and open to accommodating disability. Takes no shit and doesn't fuck around. Unfortunately, not as autism- or trauma-friendly as she believes. I booked with Elsi summer of 2026, as my regular was out of commission. She seemed unpretentious and direct, and worked with me to accommodate my disability. When she had to cancel due to a personal emergency, she offered me a discount or extra time on the rebook by way of apology. I enjoyed talking to her, and felt like she brought her authentic self to our interactions. I told her about my barriers -- autism, trauma, mobility, etc -- and she was enthusiastic about working with me. That changed when she missed an agreed-upon timeline for an update, and misgendered me in a compliment. I expressed confusion about the compliment and asked that in the future she give herself more time to get back to me so that she could keep the agreed-upon timeline -- I don't do well with unexpected changes. I wasn't upset, just stating my communication preferences and trying to clear up my own confusion. I believe she interpreted my direct communication as passive aggressive, sarcastic, and disrespectful. I apologized immediately and thanked her for voicing her displeasure, but she promptly fired me. I felt it was a relatively minor miscommunication, easily cleared up. I was shocked by her reaction, and disappointed that she wasn't interested in my apology or understanding my intentions. I still get the impression that she's a great provider -- just maybe not if you're prone to putting your foot in your mouth or being misunderstood by others.

cripslut said: 3/5. Great personality, lots of fun to talk to, affordable rates, and open to accommodating disability. Takes no shit and doesn't fuck around. Unfortunately, not as autism- or trauma-friendly as she believes. I booked with Elsi summer of 2026, as my regular was out of commission. She seemed unpretentious and direct, and worked with me to accommodate my disability. When she had to cancel due to a personal emergency, she offered me a discount or extra time on the rebook by way of apology. I enjoyed talking to her, and felt like she brought her authentic self to our interactions. I told her about my barriers -- autism, trauma, mobility, etc -- and she was enthusiastic about working with me. That changed when she missed an agreed-upon timeline for an update, and misgendered me in a compliment. I expressed confusion about the compliment and asked that in the future she give herself more time to get back to me so that she could keep the agreed-upon timeline -- I don't do well with unexpected changes. I wasn't upset, just stating my communication preferences and trying to clear up my own confusion. I believe she interpreted my direct communication as passive aggressive, sarcastic, and disrespectful. I apologized immediately and thanked her for voicing her displeasure, but she promptly fired me. I felt it was a relatively minor miscommunication, easily cleared up. I was shocked by her reaction, and disappointed that she wasn't interested in my apology or understanding my intentions. I still get the impression that she's a great provider -- just maybe not if you're prone to putting your foot in your mouth or being misunderstood by others. Click to expand... Keep trying bro. As the saying goes. There but for the grace of God go I. I hope you find some girl that will accommodate your needs. Cheers

Onto the next, as they say.

I'd suggest following providers on social media to help get an idea what their real personality is like. I followed Elsie on Twitter for a while and had her on my shortlist of providers to see because she seemed kinda edgy and fun. But after following her for a while I realized she was a bit dysfunctional and took her off my shortlist.

Was pretty good years back when she was hosting on main. A whole new lady now.

BeardedPeso said: Was pretty good years back when she was hosting on main. A whole new lady now. Click to expand... What's changed?

BeardedPeso said: Was pretty good years back when she was hosting on main. A whole new lady now. Click to expand... Please indulge us in an explanation. I havent seen her in at least a decade, but when we used to get together she was a handfull, and just the right amount of sass to be fun and keep you on your toes. I think my limit of being in her presence was only a couple of hours, before the whole attitude wore thin. but I was about to contact her again as I just saw her post, but perhaps some things are best left as memories.

1112233311 said: What's changed? Click to expand... Try to talk to her. She claims she knows about trauma and is tolerant but appears to be the exact opposite. Quite concerning.

how much the damage and how to contact her?

To the OP, it's not your fault. She has gone psycho on several clients for no good reason, many have confirmed this. Absolutely do not send her a deposit.

An end to an era with her unfortunately

DownTownDan said: Please indulge us in an explanation. I havent seen her in at least a decade, but when we used to get together she was a handfull, and just the right amount of sass to be fun and keep you on your toes. I think my limit of being in her presence was only a couple of hours, before the whole attitude wore thin. but I was about to contact her again as I just saw her post, but perhaps some things are best left as memories. Click to expand... If you saw her from the beginning she was a little witty, sassy nympomaniac and the experience was great. Now I feel her warped humor to be more slightly degrading and service not as good as it used to be

Tradetrades said: Try to talk to her. She claims she knows about trauma and is tolerant but appears to be the exact opposite. Quite concerning. Click to expand... Many such cases, sadly