What do you guys typically bring for the girls on your poon sessions?

levior said: Curious to see what every one brings for the girls Do you typically bring the same thing every time or do you change it up depending on if the girl is Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Chinese? My go to is usually just a half sweet milk tea, but just wondering if you guys had other options that SPs typically liked better Click to expand... cock ring

I once got a provider a sampler of some perfume in my second visit...that may have partly contributed to her giving me a MUCH better experience than the first time (which was also amazing).

A Pot plant.... brightens up the place.....

Pumped said: This isn't about that -- it's about the expectations that are created by saying "to get better service you need to bring gifts". At what point do those expectations cross a line from 'gee, be nice and give her flowers' to 'I gave her flowers she better appreciate it in some way!' ? And I've been around long enough to hear lots of horror stories from guys who didn't know the difference between a business relationship and a personal one. There was a guy who used to post reviews and humble-bragged about his unit and that wasn't the problem ... it was his attitude that somehow he should get more because of it. That somehow SPs should be so blessed and impressed by it that they would agree to things that they likely did not want to agree to. Do things for others because you like to do them. Too many people expect something in return. That can become a problem very quickly with some people. Click to expand... If I may interject (love the discussion, by the way) I’d just like to add that any gift/extra should be to show YOUR appreciation to said person, not an attempt to garner favor from them. Kindness is the easiest thing to reciprocate!

Sometimes a couple of js at her request. We have a drink or 2 once in a while as well

A good attitude

Harmony-bc said: I don’t smoke weed (or anything) but I like the smell so my place is 420 friendly. Most common gift people bring me is chocolate, second is pretty flowers, 3rd is a gift certificate or a thoughtful little present somebody thinks I might like. Lots bring nothing but a good attitude. Click to expand... I bring my talented mouth and tongue and make sure I’m clean shaved nice and smooth .

Stanz said: I bring my talented mouth and tongue and make sure I’m clean shaved nice and smooth . Click to expand... Clean shaven is always a nice thoughtful gesture 💕. nobody likes sand paper on their privates! 😝 If you’re the kind of guy that doesn’t like to shave, then clean and soft, and well groomed is also nice 💕

Harmony-bc said: Clean shaven is always a nice thoughtful gesture 💕. nobody likes sand paper on their privates! 😝 If you’re the kind of guy that doesn’t like to shave, then clean and soft, and well groomed is also nice 💕 Click to expand... Yes it’s important to me that the girl is comfortable physically and comfortable with what we engage in

I've never brought anything other than the right amount of cash. I also show up fresh, clean, shaved, have a good attitude, and am respectful of her time. Gifts and such are for girls I'm dating and wanting to build a relationship with.

*a squeaky clean ass* lol -- has to be the best answer so far! Expectations are always: respect, a clear understanding of consent, the envelope, and a good attitude. Gifts are unexpected treats! I love having fresh flowers around, but receiving them at my in-call can draw too much unwanted attention. I mostly re-gift chocolates, unless enjoyed during the date. I never accept opened beverages-- better to order delivery in that case. There used to be a thread about strangest/weirdest gifts received. A gent once brought me tree bark. I know we had email conversations about his remote location before our date... and it wasn't the only thing he brought (again, nothing expected... he gifted me an ethically sourced diamond necklace), I just keep thinking I missed some hidden meaning about the tree bark? *Fred, I've sent membership payment*

If I’d known women liked tree bark it would have saved me a lot of money!

Claire Monet said: There used to be a thread about strangest/weirdest gifts received. A gent once brought me tree bark. I know we had email conversations about his remote location before our date... and it wasn't the only thing he brought (again, nothing expected... he gifted me an ethically sourced diamond necklace), I just keep thinking I missed some hidden meaning about the tree bark? Click to expand... I have heard the phrase 'tighter than bark on a tree' referring to someone who is cheap. According to Perplexity; Receiving tree bark as a gift can be a powerful symbol of strength, protection, healing, respect for nature, and a meaningful connection to cultural heritage. It is often more than just a physical present, embodying spiritual and life-affirming qualities cherished by many communities worldwide.

jgg said: I have heard the phrase 'tighter than bark on a tree' referring to someone who is cheap. According to Perplexity; Receiving tree bark as a gift can be a powerful symbol of strength, protection, healing, respect for nature, and a meaningful connection to cultural heritage. It is often more than just a physical present, embodying spiritual and life-affirming qualities cherished by many communities worldwide. Click to expand... Awwwww that warms my heart, and suits his gentle soul 😊 thanks for that (both of you)

Just saw this fun thread... Always MCT coconut oil since i love giving massage and makes DATO extra great. A bottle of prefered beverage unopened to share. Hopefully wine but open to a sober experience. A bit of extra cash just in case there is an extra CIM thats not normally included or known by booking desk in case of an agency. Often a silk tie if sp is open to a kinky little bondage. Not a first date thing usually. Sometimes hand made artisanal soap. Fancy french cheese or sushi on longer dates. Edibles on select longer dates. Ok so i have a small back pack. And of course much other stuff/prep already mentioned... I gotta say i rarely have a bad date.

I have not repeated as of yet which is when I might bring a gift. I have been with SP's that did not live up to their promise. That would have been a waste of the gift itself. I will probably research the culture of the SP and go from there. Cash for great service is always accepted.

Fletch1939 said: I have not repeated as of yet which is when I might bring a gift. I have been with SP's that did not live up to their promise. That would have been a waste of the gift itself. I will probably research the culture of the SP and go from there. Cash for great service is always accepted. Click to expand... Im much more into the sugar babe seeking scene than escorts but I’ve brought flowers and coolers to past visits with both options. Love finding woman that I can bang and then go for a walk or dinner with and build a connection for no extra charge.

On a first visit, I usually bring a bottle of good wine and some chocolates, from my favorite chocolatier. Subsequent visits, I like to give meaningful gifts, so I pay attention. I love gifting and sometimes like to go all out. A few years ago, I ended up having a few days off at christmas, with nothing to do. So I called up a young lady, I had been seeing, whenever in town and got lucky. I spent the day picking up gifts and supplies, decorated the suite I was in and created stockings, filled with goodies and gifts. She brought a friend she worked with and we had a wonderful time.

One provider I see has a large dog in a kennel when I see her. The last couple times I have brought him a marrow bone to gnaw on. Another provider who is retired now had a cat so I stopped off at a pet store on the way to my appointment to buy it a toy.

Several Bottles of baby oil. Johnsons & Johnson brand.