“How’d you get started?”

I’m always asked. It’s your turn to answer. 😊

In front of the hotel Georgia way back in 1981,just got back on land from commercial fishing, PNE weekend. This gorgeous blond jumps in my truck,think it was $160? No kissing ,no daty,no bj,just slap a rubber on,wham bam thank you ma'am," hey could you drop me off here?Have a good night sweetie "

I was in Germany with the military, late ‘80’s. Red light districts and Jäegermeister.

luvsdaty said: In front of the hotel Georgia way back in 1981 Click to expand... Peak high track era

After my last divorce and a long period of celibacy, I went "middle age crazy" and by the time I came to my senses, I had spent over 40k on dating, in a year. I decided this might be a more cost effective way to go. Alas, I can't help myself, I ended up dating some of the ladies, anyway.

As designated driver with the owner and 2 of his friends on a road trip from Germany to the coast of Belgium---afterward the 3 wanted to checkout Amsterdam. The big Oldsmobile couldn't stand still and after driving all the previous night the 4 of us landed in the Canel Street. Surprised I just wanted to look around while the 3 participated and enjoyed themselves. And drove back the same night while the 3 left me alone in the front seat. Returned alone by train several times with the 10 minute walk from the Amsterdam rail station and stayed in a 1-star hotel on site.

Was looking for a sauna, Executive Bath in Winnipeg advertised under bath houses in the yellow pages.So long ago that the dry cleaners was on the main floor. The rest is history

Twenty years ago, I staggered out of a nightclub and this woman asked if I wanted some company. I laughed and stumbled off in search of my car. After a fruitless search around the block I pass by her again and she asks the same question. I stop and ask "how much?" and she tells me. I laugh and continue the frustrating search for my car. Another lap around the block and there she is again. At this point I just want to find my car, so I tell her if she can find it, I'll go with her. She asks for my keys, hits the key fob and my car lights up right behind me. Fuck! She was really sweet and good at her job. It was a nice introduction to this hobby (under the circumstances) and it made me curious about who and what else was out there. Eventually stumbled upon PERB (way back when) and that really changed things for the better.

I was strictly a strip club guy in the 90s, and found an online site talking about strip clubs, mileage etc. It also had escort discussions. I also was on usenet groups. ASPD, Alt.sex.prostitution.discussion I believe it was. Reading led to trying and the rest is history. Now that I am several years post divorce, I don't even date much. There's way too much stupidity the drama now with online dating and anti-male movements. I have not come across very many women my age or even within 10 years of me who are single who don't deserve to be. I'd rather keep it simple than play russian roulette.

I had sone old friends out to the cottage. At the time I was 36. I told them I hadn''t had a girlfriend since I was 22 and that I was constantly rejected by women during my dry spell. They were horrified that I hadn't had sex for 14 years. They convinced me to hire a provider. Many years later, still being rejected continuosly and still without a partner.

After my first and only girlfriend died, I never really dated despite trying to move on. This was a way to physically express myself and have some kind of companionship. Fortunate to have developed some good friendships along the way.

Late last year, just feeling kinda like I knew I was starting to feel depressed but also feeling sexually insecure after a 2-year period of not having actual sex. Saw a companion in MTL and it sparked a reawakening of sorts, which is just mid-life crises wish fulfillment, but it has really helped me to regain some confidence and my sexual self.

Sexually frustrated marriage had ended and not ready for "real world" dating I started looking online. So glad that I was able to open my horizons in this manner. It gave me confidence in "real" dating and I've never looked back. Great moment to comment that I am grateful for all the amazing ladies that I've met as a result. You girls are wonderful 😍

First time around, a Nice looking young lady thumbing a ride on Hasting St., (1985) ..... 10 Yrs ago, 8 years of "not gettin any" post menopause. I gotta look elsewhere or go crazy.

Wife hits menopause - no interest in sex, best buddy dies - start living life likes there’s no tomorrow. No regrets- marriage better than ever.

I started/kept this hobby because I am an INCEL with very little confidence talking to women, keep getting blocked or played/manipulated, sometime getting blocked after being teased and played. I lost my virginity to a escort on Telford when I was closed to 25, now I am close to 30 never had someone i can call as girlfriend.

I got really horny and the rest is history.

Worked in an area with a lot of street walkers, and became friendly with some. One asked me if I'd like to see her for more than friendship. She was young, hot and a lot of fun, and was a good introduction to the game.

Young and very horny, still am. (VERY) Long dry spells at home. Old Chinese proverb “man not fed at home, eat out in restaurant, menu not good change restaurant “

Easier than dating, no plan to date seriously until my buisness is autonomous, I can date and have children in my late 40’s with a 20-25 year old . I used to strip in my 20’s in the states so I was introduced to the lifestyle then with women clients figured it was a easier route so I’ll see Sps or sugar babies whenever I want now. Focus on myself not responsible for anyone but me, my mom and siblings easy living .