Gossip girls & boys.

My friend—who doesn’t have an account here because her wife said no (I think)—asked me to ask on her behalf: when a hottie sends you a hot clip or dirty photo, how fast do you sprint to show it off to your best friends and enemies? Just to brag a little, of course. Be honest—on a scale of 8 to 10?

MikaDupont said: My friend—who doesn’t have an account here because her wife said no (I think)—asked me to ask on her behalf: when a hottie sends you a hot clip or dirty photo, how fast do you sprint to show it off to your best friends and enemies? Just to brag a little, of course. Be honest—on a scale of 8 to 10? Click to expand... Never. It's for me. Why would I want to break discretion, and risk never getting another one.

I've never shown anyone any of the private pics/videos I've been sent, although sometimes they eventually make their way into edited OF posts, so I guess some like for it to be shared (on their terms).

One of the main reasons I've been around as long as I have is the fact I mind my own business and understand discretion. Sure has worked for me.

Still trying to figure out the "scale of 8-10" thing. . .

Nobody sends me hot clips or dirty photos, except for one scammer on Facebook. I must be doing something wrong.

MikaDupont said: My friend—who doesn’t have an account here because her wife said no (I think)—asked me to ask on her behalf: when a hottie sends you a hot clip or dirty photo, how fast do you sprint to show it off to your best friends and enemies? Just to brag a little, of course. Be honest—on a scale of 8 to 10? Click to expand... Never (and if someone offers to show me what had been sent to them, I decline)...as others have mentioned, discretion is part of your 'personal code'

Never for me as well for 2 reasons. I’d never share someone’s pics without consent. I expect any screening info I may have provided to an SP to be kept private or deleted, and they should expect the same courtesy from me. Also no matter how tempted I might be to brag to friends about the hot girls I get to play with in this part of my life, I have never told anyone about it and never will. As the old wartime saying goes, Loose Lips Sink Ships. No way am I going to risk telling anyone.

masterblaster said: Nobody sends me hot clips or dirty photos, except for one scammer on Facebook. I must be doing something wrong. Click to expand... same, but if a woman ever did send me sexy pics there's no way I would show anyone. my eyes only [:)] same for everyone in my friend group. it seems like a really scummy thing to do.

Never ever.

... is it possible hobbyists are better behaved than the general public?

vanperb said: ... is it possible hobbyists are better behaved than the general public? Click to expand... That would not shock me at all. 😇 I’d also suggest that we value our privacy much more than the average person for obvious reasons. Thus we likely take the privacy of others more seriously as well.

vanperb said: ... is it possible hobbyists are better behaved than the general public? Click to expand... It appears this may be the case. I like!

vanperb said: ... is it possible hobbyists are better behaved than the general public? Click to expand... I would also add to your question.... that without over playing the sex/gender card ...in general but not in absolute Do women share more intimate details with their friends than men do ? My personal experience would tend to indicate that women share more in that regard than men. Even though it's only anecdotal in my case .

vanperb said: ... is it possible hobbyists are better behaved than the general public? Click to expand... The responses in this thread are heartening, and my clients are really nice to me too. I've been told that maybe the guys are nice to me in this industry BECAUSE they get to sleep with me, but a win is a win 😂

The submissions have been reviewed and duly admired — it appears that discretion reigns supreme. Thank you, all so very much. The crown rests [:)]

masterpoonhunter said: One of the main reasons I've been around as long as I have is the fact I mind my own business and understand discretion. Sure has worked for me. Click to expand... Wise words to live by in life in general.

carvesg said: I would also add to your question.... that without over playing the sex/gender card ...in general but not in absolute Do women share more intimate details with their friends than men do ? My personal experience would tend to indicate that women share more in that regard than men. Even though it's only anecdotal in my case . Click to expand... I can assure you fellow pooner, women share more intimate details than you could possibly imagine.

I think sharing nude pics and bragging about it is an immaturity thing. Most grownups wouldn’t do that. However, there are a lot of immature grownups in this world 🤪 . I’ve sent nude pics to lovers. No regrets. I once accidentally sent a boob pic to everybody in my phone list. That was so embarrassing. Thank god my dad has always had a land line hahaha I talk to my best friends about my life which sometimes includes intimate details. We’re friends. That’s what friends do. I’m not a gossiper tho. Even in high school where everybody gossiped with everybody, I’d just walk away. Your business is none of my business.

If a guy showed me a pic of a nice looking nude woman he scored with I would assume he’s either full of shit or a douche or both.