How much have you spent this year on SPs?

The amount spent on the hobby needs to have some context. For example how much are you spending relative to your income.?Spending 10k on a year on the hobby when you make 50k is way different than if you make 900k

Austinpowersmojo said: The amount spent on the hobby needs to have some context. For example how much are you spending relative to your income.?Spending 10k on a year on the hobby when you make 50k is way different than if you make 900k Click to expand... Maybe people will be comfortable with that, I'm not, but only because I don't think that was the point of OPs question considering he didn't disclose either. It isn't "who spent the most unreasonable % of their income on sex workers this year?", just "what did y'all spend?"

If someone could solve this problem in a way that could keep up with inflation and sex be affordable to anyone... versus there being the perception of scarcity around sex - that would make them billions or even trillions... I know of men who actually worked things out around sex where they don't actually want or need it... kind of strange being around them because they are truly free of the needing or having to have sex...looks to me like that would be heaven being "free" of that constant drive to want to get in a woman's pants...such that you could just hang with a beautiful woman not feeling like having to get somewhere with her at all and just be present with her...free from the need to ever have to pay for it up front... How they got there was really interesting...they had a committed partner but worked through all the jealousy, inadequacy, etc such that they were completely free to have other sexual partners outside of the primary relationship, where they could talk openly and no "emotional charge" until it became as insignificant as talking about the weather and a big whatever... Very ironic to discover that when a man can have sex anytime he wants, it eventually becomes a big insignificant "whatever" and he ends up focusing on other things and loses the desire to want to be with other women... I hope some women are reading this post... It seems like it is almost impossible for a woman to hear this... An example of this is the movie "Hall Pass" where the wives give their husbands a hall pass and total freedom to go and have sex with whoever they want over a weekend in Ft. Lauderdale at Spring Break...one of the easiest places in the world to get laid and none of the men call pull it off... I have wanted to explore doing this sort of work with a woman... But super rare to bump into one who actually has this as something she wants to explore and I realized that unless she wanted to do it...it would never happen... what I would be curious to know ..if you gave a woman everything she ever wanted, would she be open to wanting to explore something like this...just an inquiry I had and something I have wondered about (like if that is something that women would like to be free of - free from the constant fear other women coming and taking their guy)

This reminds me of the joke about the fellow on his deathbed who declares "I spent half my money on wild women, fine whiskey and shady gambling joints. The rest of it I wasted."

Kind of crazy to think.... even if you make 6 entry 6 figs spending a modest 5k is like 5% of your income spent on pooning lol As long as you don't go into the red. Sometimes I'll go twice a month, sometimes only once. But these guys go on adventure 6 times back to back is insane to me lol. From a cost standpoint.

DV6 said: I use to be like that. And you’re right, it’s a form of insanity to throw away everything you have on someone who would never do the same in return. But It takes a while to clue into these kinda things when you’re first blinded by the game. Click to expand... Maybey the sex w these particular woman was out of this world . In that case , it’s understandable . Maybey a handful of times in one lifetime you meet someone who rings your bell on a level unlike most others . When you first meet such an individual , for a while it can feel a bit like Crack !

I go maybe once every 2-3 months. That's what I need to fill up the things I can only find there meter and leave happy until the next time. So, about $800/y ~ . I know it's on the low side, just writing to have others like me know they're not alone [:)] I try to see the same one/place if possible, as the down side is that I have less option to risk a visit, and this site helps a lot with that.

erdt80 said: I go maybe in 2-3 months. That's what I need to fill up the things I can only find there meter and leave happy until the next time. So, about $800/y ~ . I know it's on the low side, just writing to have others like me know they're not alone [:)] I try to see the same one/place if possible, as the down side is that I have less option to risk a visit, and this site helps a lot with that. Click to expand... I seem to average about 8-9 times a yr

erdt80 said: I try to see the same one/place if possible, as the down side is that I have less option to risk a visit, and this site helps a lot with that. Click to expand... Risk mitigation is critical for anyone on a tight budget. Don’t play the field when the scammers are more and more plentiful.

Really don't want to think about it. Somewhat embarrassing. But I know I'll just keep going on... OTT.

500 dollarydoos, was worth it.

DV6 said: Well, I’ve never been the biggest fan of crack! lol. But ya, there’s only a few opportunities in life to meet someone who really rocks your world on a level unlike anyone else. And that was pretty much the case for me. It was worth every visit & dollar spent. ( I don’t regret it one bit! ) But that’s doesn’t mean I still don’t recognize how delusional it was on my part.😉 Click to expand... DV6 said: Well, I’ve never been the biggest fan of crack! lol. But ya, there’s only a few opportunities in life to meet someone who really rocks your world on a level unlike anyone else. And that was pretty much the case for me. It was worth every visit & dollar spent. ( I don’t regret it one bit! ) But that’s doesn’t mean I still don’t recognize how delusional it was on my part.😉 Click to expand... still quite understandable

justbrowsing1 said: Kind of crazy to think.... even if you make 6 entry 6 figs spending a modest 5k is like 5% of your income spent on pooning lol As long as you don't go into the red. Sometimes I'll go twice a month, sometimes only once. But these guys go on adventure 6 times back to back is insane to me lol. From a cost standpoint. Click to expand... I’ve read some reviews stating 3 sp’s in one day . If you aren’t finishing and can afford it then I get it . But if you finsihed , I’d wanna spread the fun out . I guess some prefer a bender .

I honestly can’t see myself stopping even if the thought crossed my mind . It gives me something to look fwrd to , Occasionally I’ll even use it as a reward system for getting through a long or tough work period , or accomplishing a goal .

i've always called it entertainment budget, as long as your having fun and it isn't cutting to the reality of real life bills and commitments its fine, a few years ago I started going hard in my opinion 1-2 times a week (@$220 per) but near the last of last year had to cut it down significantly to once a month and this year I haven't been out yet. With house renovations, many other projects and Car Audio have cut into my funds quite a bit. For me it's all about priorities, I plan on getting back out there soon and doubt I will ever quit

I have spent more than i liked to admit but its still a small fraction of what i paid out in the divorce.No more wedding bells for me only pay for play thanks.

Austinpowersmojo said: The amount spent on the hobby needs to have some context. For example how much are you spending relative to your income.?Spending 10k on a year on the hobby when you make 50k is way different than if you make 900k Click to expand... Making 900k a year would be amazing

DV6 said: But I don’t obsess over how often it gets to happen anymore. Click to expand... Same , all the DM’s asking “seen anyone new lately” ? Didn’t help . Until I got more comfortable saying not really lol

Ctian said: i've always called it entertainment budget, as long as your having fun and it isn't cutting to the reality of real life bills and commitments its fine, a few years ago I started going hard in my opinion 1-2 times a week (@$220 per) but near the last of last year had to cut it down significantly to once a month and this year I haven't been out yet. With house renovations, many other projects and Car Audio have cut into my funds quite a bit. For me it's all about priorities, I plan on getting back out there soon and doubt I will ever quit Click to expand... Bro you just outed yourself as 40+ by mentioning car audio lol. The younger generation wouldn't understand. All the cars they grew up with have built in stereos that cant be easily modified. I miss the days of just popping in a new deck and wiring new speakers and a pair of subs.

2025, around $5k+ mostly on 2 regulars.