Has an SP ever insulted you before?

I had one steal some money from me once, that was insulting. I fixed her wagon though.

masterblaster said: I had one steal some money from me once, that was insulting. I fixed her wagon though. Click to expand... Ominous

SolidSnake said: I can't help but think these girls destroy your mood on purpose to do less work and/or cut the session short. Click to expand... yes this is possible, however it ultimately hurts them. Word gets out then they have less clients.

123sure said: SP freaked on out on me once cause i had to pee very badly after bj and stopped to asl to use washroom. She went ballistic on me for that. To ask to go pee. Later shes questioning why I couldn't wait till after sex to pee. she asked You can't hold it? In these scenarios, once I feel a lady isn't mentally all there. It's best to stay quiet and leave as soon as possible to avoid further conflicts. Click to expand... That’s funny because if you’ve been around enough men or even have a human body yourself, you know that it’s pretty hard to orgasm or enjoy oral sex if you really need to pee. That’s so weird of her. Lol.

johnniejetpack said: yes this is possible, however it ultimately hurts them. Word gets out then they have less clients. Click to expand... I doubt that would happen. There are too many men out there not doing their research, thinking with their small head, doing dumb things etc. that bad SP are still getting a lot of first time clients.

asf_post said: I doubt that would happen. There are too many men out there not doing their research, thinking with their small head, doing dumb things etc. that bad SP are still getting a lot of first time clients. Click to expand... they have less repeat clients, therefore less business. same diff. plus less business from educated pooners like us ;-)

asf_post said: I doubt that would happen. There are too many men out there not doing their research, thinking with their small head, doing dumb things etc. that bad SP are still getting a lot of first time clients. Click to expand... I don’t think reviews matter that much for a working girls business. Good reviews might even make her business harder as people might show up with way too high expectations. What one man thinks is beautiful, another might not. Some people are just happy with anything, others are happy with nothing. I am here because I want to add a positive reasonable sex worker voice to this forum. As well as I’ve met some really fantastic lurkers here. And a few chronic posters have been fantastic as well. What reviews are really good for is keeping everybody a bit more safe in a crazy world 💕

expectations can definitely get out of hand, and one person’s gem is another’s letdown. But for someone spending a couple hundred to thousands of dollars, reviews can offer something real: a pattern of experience. Not perfection, not universal beauty standards, just a sense of whether she’s reliable, safe, and roughly as advertised. That kind of insight matters when the stakes and cash are high. Reviews help clients navigate risk without relying on fantasy

Harmony-bc said: I don’t think reviews matter that much for a working girls business. Click to expand... Yup. There's threads with horrible reviews by multiple guys and some idiot will go see her.

jjm86 said: Those who are spending a couple thousand on longer dates; read the reviews Click to expand... I have done weekends and 2 week-long trips, but only with ladies I know well. Nobody should risk longer dates with someone they have never met, no matter what any reviews say.

SPs benefit from a most mens wanting to maintain access so they typically get good reviews unless they are completely not worth seeing. Hotels, on the other hand, typically only see the bad reviews, as seldom do people leave good reviews for hotels. I know people in the hospitality industry, so know this to be the case. With SPs, I would agree with you though. If there are bad reviews, there is a good reason for it, and it is not a good look on the SPs.

I was chatting with a girl and we agreed on meeting up for a very wild time (CNC and DD/LG play, very few limits, for an entire evening). Rate was confirmed and I sent her a pic she asked for. I showed up and she was confused as she "thought I was white but a little tanned" from my picture; im not white though and thought it was obvious? She said she's never been with a guy who wasn't white, and would've said no to this if she knew, but she went along with it anyways. I buried the rod so hard that not even king Arthur could pull it out on behalf of my fellow bros of color. I also introduced her to race play 😅 I also had another SP say she doesnt do greek, it's very clearly listed as a restriction on her ad, but she asked me for some of the things I liked and one of them was greek but I knew she didnt offer it so i never brought it up until she asked. She said she would try it with me because "youre the right size", which I guess means she thinks my peter is small LOL but I got to have greek with her. She wasn't the only one to offer this to me because of my size either. There have been other situations where girls, civilian and SP, have tried "deepthroat" and greek with me due to my size. I dont feel insulted at all. I'm legit 5.5" by 5.5", which is average? But hey, I'll take it lol.

Bang4thebuck said: I buried the rod so hard that not even king Arthur could pull it out on behalf of my fellow bros of color. Click to expand... This is awesome, thanks for the laugh.

123sure said: SP freaked on out on me once cause i had to pee very badly after bj and stopped to asl to use washroom. She went ballistic on me for that. To ask to go pee. Later shes questioning why I couldn't wait till after sex to pee. she asked You can't hold it? In these scenarios, once I feel a lady isn't mentally all there. It's best to stay quiet and leave as soon as possible to avoid further conflicts. Click to expand... Maybe she wanted you to give her a golden shower?

We were talking in Chinese throughout the session. By the end of it, she said, you looked like a really positive person, but your inner self is spreading negativity. Maybe I was at the peak of family trauma, and I was tired and empty in my heart.

Not that I got offended but surely the SP did. After we finished we talked about random things and at one point I told her that I have seen other girls from the same agency she was working at that time and she asked me about my experience with other girls. I got too excited and told her that one of the girls were superb and gave me pleasure of a lifetime. Hearing that her mood got changed instantly, she was like if she was that good, why didn’t you see her again instead of seeing me. I blatantly told her that I like to taste different pussy and you are wonderful too. Oops, the damage was done and she didn’t talk to me for the rest of the time and not even say bye. I don’t know was that part of “true girlfriend” experience or what 🤔 Lesson learned: never bring another girl into the conversation 😅

I can imagine that most providers are pretty cautious about setting off a client and the consequences that could bring them. If you really want to know about insults, slurs and other shit thrown around, ask about dates, girlfriends, partners and wives! Providers are, for the most part, pretty damn kind and generous despite the trash they have to put up with.

bigasianload said: I had a session a few years back with Sierra Wilde. I climaxed pretty quickly the first round (weird story there) and we went ahead to try a second - my junior refused to wake up and she looked at me, scoffed, rolled her eyes and said “this is exactly why I shouldnt allow msog” maybe not a straight insult, but i took a 2-3 month hiatus after that session since i took a bit of a mental hit Click to expand... Maybe it is a French Canadian thing.

The_Lionheart said: Maybe it is a French Canadian thing. Click to expand... Maybe you could call that statement a xenophobic thing... Let's not go there. In every culture there are people who lack social skills or awareness.... sometimes it can be exhaustion, sugar level or frustration from personal problems affecting the day to day behaviour.

I don't think I ever got insulted directly, but at least indirectly I have: the many times a certain former SP kept saying she would be ready soon and then at least an hour has passed and nothing. My time is valuable, too, [redacted].